When it comes to planning your big day, one of the first major decisions you’ll make is how big you actually want it to be. Over the last few years, couples have embraced more intentional celebrations — shifting from large, traditional weddings to smaller, more curated micro-weddings.

But which option is right for you?

Let’s break it down.

What Is a Micro-Wedding?

A micro-wedding typically includes 20–50 guests and keeps the traditional elements of a wedding — ceremony, dinner, dancing — just on a smaller scale.

It’s not an elopement. It’s a full wedding experience, simply more intimate.

Why Couples Love Micro-Weddings:

• 💕 More quality time with each guest

• 🍽 Elevated food and drink experiences

• 💰 More flexibility in budget allocation

• ✨ Less stress and easier planning

• 📸 A relaxed, meaningful atmosphere

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With fewer guests, couples can invest more into details — custom menus, craft cocktail pairings, upgraded décor, or even a curated beer selection if you’re celebrating at a brewery venue.

Micro-weddings often feel more personal, more emotional, and more connected.

What Is a Traditional Wedding?

A traditional wedding typically includes 100+ guests and often follows a more structured format: ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner service, formal dances, and a larger reception celebration.

Why Couples Choose Traditional Weddings:

• 🎉 Bigger celebration with extended family and friends

• 💃 High-energy dance floor and party atmosphere

• 👨‍👩‍👧 Opportunity to include cultural or family traditions

• 📷 Classic, timeless wedding experience

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Traditional weddings create that “once-in-a-lifetime event” feel — a full-scale celebration that brings everyone together.

Key Differences to Consider

1️⃣ Budget

A larger guest count means higher catering, bar, rental, and décor costs.Micro-weddings often allow couples to reallocate their budget into premium experiences — upgraded menus, specialty cocktails, enhanced florals, or live entertainment.

2️⃣ Guest Experience

With 30 guests, you’ll likely have meaningful conversations with everyone.With 150 guests, the energy is electric — but your time with each person may be brief.

3️⃣ Atmosphere

Micro-weddings feel intimate and romantic.Traditional weddings feel grand and celebratory.

4️⃣ Planning Stress

More guests typically means more logistics.Smaller weddings tend to be more streamlined and flexible.

So… Which Is Right for You?

Ask yourselves:

• Do we want an intimate dinner party vibe or a full-scale celebration?

• Is connecting deeply with a small group important to us?

• Do we want a high-energy dance party?

• What feels authentic to our personalities?

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There’s no “right” answer — only what fits your vision.

A Beautiful Middle Ground

Many couples are now blending both worlds — hosting a smaller ceremony and dinner with close family and friends, then opening the reception space for a larger evening celebration.

This hybrid approach offers intimacy without sacrificing the party.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, your wedding should reflect you. Whether you envision a cozy, candlelit micro-wedding or a vibrant, full guest list celebration, the goal is the same: creating a day filled with meaning, joy, and unforgettable moments.

The best weddings aren’t defined by size — they’re defined by connection.